How to Instantly Spark A Woman's Attraction For You - By Simon Heong

Have you ever noticed this? 

Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally 
want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right? 

You will then notice, if she's really a 'hot' one, the guy
will not only want to attract her attention, but he'll also 
want to try to impress her in whatever way he can. 

He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the 
other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset 
is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing 
it, he won't he will do the obvious. 

He'll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk 
faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's 
with her. 

Notice that some guys will even have their own lil' 'interview' 
thing going on in their head. 

They'll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they'll 
be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. 
"how old are you," "where are you from", "what do you like 
doing in your free time," "how's is your mom doing," 
"how's your dad doing?"... 

Know what I'm talking about? 

They'll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking 
that this will actually keep the conversation going but 
honestly, don't you think an attractive woman gets asked the 
same 'ol questions all the time?

Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy 
who's there for her all the time, who does all the sweet 
things for her, buying her gifts and doing all those stuff 
that your parents normally teaches their kids on dating.

Now, don't you think that 90% of guys do the exact same 
thing all the time?

You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that 
you're being needy and insecure. Why do I say needy? 

'Needy' because it gives her the impression that you need 
to do certain things; you need to practically 'work' your 
way to impress her.

It also projects a sign of weakness in your part. That 
you're just insecure about yourself. 

Trust me, doing so will seem way too 'normal' for them.

They won't stick around when they sense this. 

And women are extremely good in their intuition. I can't 
really explain why. Nor can they. But it's just something 
that they can just feel.

So, whats the best way to spark the attraction with women 
then? 

Simple. 

Do the UNEXPECTED. 

Do the unpredictable that catches their attention. 

For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a 
lack of interest in the girl whether or not she's there. 

You see, I'm here telling you that it's perfectly OK to have 
relaxed moments of silences when you're with the girl.

It's ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times 
what you should in fact do is to project a very laid back, 
relaxed, and confident air about yourself when you're with 
her.

You must project to her that you're really comfortable with 
your own self first and not just looking to pick up someone, 
and to impress someone.

You have to show it to her that you don't need to impress 
her.

She'll have to be the one to do the impressing. 

Think of it this way, if she's a real attractive woman, she
probably gets 'hit on' at least 3-5 times a day -- EVERYDAY.

I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the 
same pathetic way and will try to impress like the rest of 
the pack.

She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has
become used to having guys hit on her. 

Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if you're not 
intimidated by her beauty, and you just act as if you're not 
one bit interested in her... 

... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence
at times. Imagine how things have changed now? 

When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you don't.

Don't you think she'll even take a little notice of then? 

Think about this. It's some powerful stuff. 

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the 
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "28 SureFire Ways 
To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook -- The Net's FIRST 
ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets 
on female attraction techniques and strategies. 

The Most Effective Way To Pick Up A Woman - By Simon Heong

Here's the mindset you should have if you really want to be 
successful when it comes to dating and meeting women.

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you
about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It's not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly 
says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their 
life, often times they're actually lying to themselves -- without 
them even realizing it!

It's true! 

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but 
in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able 
be with as many women as possible in your lifetime - the nice
guy route will get you nowhere and you'll end up getting nothing
but rejections. 

I'm not going to go into the details on the 'why' part of it 
because most of you might have already know about it. 

Just in case you still don't know why, you can read all about it
here in my "28 SureFire Ways To Instant Dating Success! 
Handbook...

But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women, 
especially attractive ones can act rather 'bitchy' and rude
sometimes and how you can effectively pick up one - with ease.

First of all, you have to understand that attractive women, they
get 'hit on' one way or another at least 10 times a day everyday
- consistently.

Now at first it may all seem happy and nice with them receiving
all the attention from the guys, and sure they can be all cutesy 
and polite to them whenever they're being approached but 
after a while, it all tends to get rather irritating and 
annoying - merely because they're hearing the same ol' lines, 
howlings and perv stares over and over again. 

Exact words from a woman's mouth - not mine.

So what they do about it? 

Well in order for them to 'save time', they would then be 
'forced' to be more 'to the point' or as we like to call it
'bitchy' to the guys that approach them.

Why must they be so mean?

Simply because they HAVE to. 

You see, if they weren't mean enough, guys who are usually 
thick-skinned will not get the point and they'll keep on 
pursuing UNTIL she says a firm no.

Makes sense? 

How do I know this? Well, to be honest with you, it was merely
by chance. I didn't get any of it at first until I started to
really mix with women. 

Sometimes, it's really good to have close girl friends because
you might learn a LOT from them. I now begin to see it all from 
THEIR perspective now... 

How to approach a woman? 

Now, I've noticed that most guys (the majority of them actually), 
whenever they approach a woman, they always start off by saying 
something like 'Hi there, you're gorgeous, oh by the way, my 
name's John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you, bla bla 
bla..."

Heard of such a line before? 

Or probably something along these lines? 

Now, think about it. If you're a girl and you get asked the 
same question about 5-10 times a day, do you think that there's 
a high chance that you'll get immune to it? 

Of course you would! 

And I'm not guessing here because I had a girl friend who once
told me the same thing that I'm telling you now! 

It's just too 'typical' for them to receive such lame,
everyday 'pick up' lines.

Best thing is, do you know instead what they would rather hear? 

Try this: 

Go up to her, and just give her a funny compliment on something
she LEAST expects to get a compliment on (NEVER compliment her 
looks, she's immune to that, remember?), you can compliment on 
her funky hairstyle, her heels, her big ears -- anything.

Just as long as its something she LEAST expects to hear from 
a guy. 

Using humour is always good in picking up women. Humor added
with a bit of spunk, along with a spot-on sarcastic tone and 
body language will definitely seal the deal for you -- and 
get her interested. 

Surely. 

Think about it. 

This works. :-)

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the 
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "28 SureFire Ways 
To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook -- The Net's FIRST 
ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets 
on female attraction techniques and strategies.